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Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Love is Everywhere


                The best way to express one’s feelings of love and passion is through sharing poems and songs. People have different views on love. Many of these views throughout the ages are explored through poetry and songs. The main idea or assumption explored in the poems “To My Dear and Loving Husband” by Anne Bradstreet and “How Do I Love Thee?” by Elizabeth Barrett Browning is that true love is exclusive and passionate. The song “Just The Way You Are” by Billy Joel is also a pure expression of unconditional and devoted love. The poems and the song illustrate the theme of love by portraying an emotional, passionate and sincere tone.
            In the poem, “To My Dear and Loving Husband” Bradstreet expresses her intense love and undying affection for her husband. There is a tone of happiness, contentment and pride in the poem, that is conveyed through the word choices she uses. In the first stanza, she presents her heartfelt feelings within a logical argument through the repeated use of if/then statements. The repetition of the phrase “If…then” highlights the poet’s intent to persuade her audience of the truth of her claims. She employs a distinct metaphor in the second stanza by saying “I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold / or all the riches that the East doth hold” (Bradstreet 5-6). In the following lines, she shifts from how much she values this earthly love to the scope and insatiability of her desire. By arguing, “My love is such that rivers cannot quench” (Bradstreet 7), the author implies that her love is an ongoing thirst that no amount of water can slake. In the lines 8-10, Bradstreet talks about her husband’s love for her. The word “recompense” suggests the use of a metaphor by comparing love to money. This can be seen in the line “Nor ought but love from thee give recompense.” Then she says she has no way of repaying him for his love, and she prays that the "heavens reward" him. The final lines of the poem repeat the key term "ever," used in each of the poem's thee opening lines. The speaker concludes the poem by saying that she and her husband should love each other so strongly while they're alive that they will live forever.
            Elizabeth Barrett Browning's "How Do I Love Thee" is more abstract unlike Anne Bradstreet's "To My Dear and Loving Husband" which is written to a specific person. However, the authors use both these poems to describe unwavering love and affection. In the poem "How Do I Love Thee," Browning is trying to describe the abstract feeling of love by measuring how much her love means to her. She also expresses all the different ways of loving someone and she tells us about her thoughts around her beloved. The tone of the poem is deep, in a loving way. When she describes the many ways in which she loves "Thee", she describes the limitless boundaries in which she loves her husband. In the poem, Barrett Browning says, “My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight” (Browning 3). This is an illustration of how much she trusts him. Even though she cannot see the ending of how this love will end, she trusts him and is willing to reach out in darkness, not knowing what’s coming for her. She also says “I love thee with the breath, smiles, tears of all my life” (Browning 12). This implies that no matter what is going on in her life, whether something horrible happened or it’s just a normal day, she trusts him to stay by her side and that she will love every minute of it.
            The word “love,” is repeated frequently in the sonnet. Likewise, the fact that she never uses any synonyms for love makes us realize that what she feels is love. That there is no other words that can be used to describe this, because love is such an abstract word and also is a very difficult word to describe. In the end, Barrett Browning achieved what she wanted. She brought out to the world the tremendous, abstract subject of love, and with great success. She warms up our hearts by showing her passion to her beloved, how openly and freely she trusts him.
            Comparatively, the song “Just The Way You Are” by Billy Joel is a pure expression of unconditional and devoted love. It conveys a tone of intimacy and contentment through the theme of love. He wrote this song about his first wife, Elizabeth and gave it to her as a birthday present. This track from Joel’s 1977 album, The Stranger, won the 1979 Grammy Awards. Billy Joel's classic “Just The Way You Are” is an absolutely beautiful song about not changing who we are. The song stresses this fact through the lines, “Don't go trying some new fashion; Don't change the color of your hair” (Joel). It is normal to have doubts about ourselves or doubts about a relationship but we need to remind ourselves that if someone truly cares then they will love us just the way we are. The lyricist expresses his sincere and unconditional love for his wife through the song and conveys a message that we should love people for who they are.

            The poems “To My Dear and Loving Husband” and "How Do I Love Thee" and the song “Just The Way You Are” encapsulate the theme of love. Each has a tone of emotion and intimacy. The authors have shown that they believe their love shared with their spouses is of an unquestioned quality. Both the poets write with such passion that in the end, they hope that even after death, they are still with their husbands and can love them even better. The lyricist expresses his unconditional love for his wife and tells us about not changing who we are. These works illustrate that love can be far more valuable and treasured in life than material things. We also can look into these writings and find ourselves wanting to enjoy the same passion and unbridled love that these poems and songs evoke.









            

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